#16 – Building Connection with Your Life Partner

Doing the work to change your anger responses isn’t just powerful—it’s transformative. It creates a ripple effect that touches every corner of your life, including your most important relationships. For me, one of the biggest shifts happened in my marriage. I used to carry reactionary tendencies and misdirected frustrations into my relationship, creating unnecessary tension. But as I worked on myself, I learned how to show up with vulnerability and build communication styles that strengthened our connection. The result? A healthier relationship and a much more peaceful home.

In this episode, I’m sharing 10 actionable strategies to help you build deeper connection and intimacy in your relationship. We’ll explore how to uncover hidden expectations, shift unhelpful patterns, and rewrite the metaphorical dance you and your partner may be stuck in.

Take what resonates, leave the rest, and find what fits your unique relationship dynamic. Remember, even the smallest changes in one area can spark powerful growth in others. Let’s get started!

What you will learn:

  • Understand how frustration-fueled behaviors harm relationships by masking deeper pain.
  • Discover the power of meeting your own needs and giving yourself what you truly want.
  • Practice an exercise to improve deep listening during difficult conversations with your partner.
  • Learn how using “Yes, and” instead of “Yes, but” can transform your communication.

Featured:

  • Get more details on the HeartMath institute.
  • Find more information about Eckhart Tolle and the concept of the pain-body
  • Learn more about Dr. Arpita Gupta DePalma’s Small Group HYBRID Coaching Cohorts starting in January 2025 HERE
  • Transforming Your Anger From Reaction to Response Online Self Study Course with Dr. Arpita Gupta DePalma.
  • Learn more about Dr. Arpita Gupta DePalma’s programs with Thought Work, MD, including 1-to-1 coaching for individuals, group coaching cohorts for organizations, and her online self-study courses HERE.