Anger is a way of avoiding feeling the pain that we feel when we are exposed to a situation that brings up another negative emotion such as fear, shame, disappointment, resentment, urgency, etc etc. What are some of the
You may wonder why you are so quick to anger. Why it seems to give you a rush even though you regret the way you showed up later. You may not understand how your reactions have become so
Why should you forgive someone?… For your own damn sake! FORGIVENESS….it’s easier said than done, I know. 😣 Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. 🚫 Forgiveness is not for
Comparisonitis is the compulsion to compare your achievements to someone else’s in order to determine our value. 😒 It can be SO easy to slip into the trap of comparisonitis, especially in a world where so much of our
“Comparison is the thief of joy.”–Theodore Roosevelt When you compare yourself to others, you are giving your power away and sabotaging your self-confidence. 🙅🏻 Focusing your energy on trying to look like someone else, be like someone else,
The quality of your relationship with your child is dictated by your thoughts. 📢 How you feel toward your child is something that YOU are in control of. It has nothing to do with what they do or say,
Do you think it’s your kids’ fault when they bring out the BEAST in you? 🙈 Kids can really be experts at this…and sometimes they bring out the BEST in us as well, even though it seems to happen
Never go to bed angry… Yeah right! Being in partnership can be a wonderful experience, and… it does not come without its challenges. 👫 When conflict arises, we respond in ways that attempt to protect us from feeling
If you had your choice, would you rather feel emotional pain now or push it off as far into the future as possible? If you asked anybody, I bet most of them would choose later. Most people try to
People think it’s selfish, when they put themselves first. I’m here to tell you that’s BS. It’s not. 👸🏽 When you focus on your needs and the things required to help you be your best self, it will
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