Category: Coaching

Anger is often a way we avoid feeling what’s underneath

Anger is often a way we avoid feeling what’s underneath—fear, shame, disappointment, resentment, urgency. It’s protection, not the root emotion. What tends to activate your anger? 😡 When someone triggers us, it’s easy to fall into retaliation—mentally or out loud.

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You don’t have to earn love.

You don’t have to earn love. You don’t have to chase it. And you definitely don’t have to wait for someone else to give it to you. 💜 The truth is—love begins with a thought. When you believe you’re lovable

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Some of the things people do really are painful.

Some of the things people do really are painful. Deeply painful. And pretending otherwise doesn’t help anyone. But here’s the part we don’t talk about enough: Holding onto anger and resentment doesn’t actually punish the other person. It only keeps

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