💭 Do you ever hear yourself say…
“I need to do this” or “I should be doing that”?
Those words might seem harmless—but they carry pressure.
“Need” and “should” can weigh us down, disconnecting us from who we are and what we truly want.
They often come from fear, obligation, or old stories about who we think we have to be.
And over time, they chip away at our joy and self-trust.
But here’s a gentle shift:
✨ What if you tried saying “I want to do this” or “I choose to do that” instead?
Like me saying “I want to spend time with Dad, so let me get a pedicure with him!”
Feel the difference?
It’s not about pretending everything is easy or fun.
It’s about reclaiming agency.
When you act from want—not guilt—you’re more likely to follow through with energy that feels aligned and sustainable.
Now, if you don’t want to do something… get curious:
🌀 Why do I think I “should”?
🌀 Whose voice am I listening to?
🌀 What do I really want—and what would it take to want the steps that get me there?
Because sometimes, growth does feel uncomfortable.
But discomfort in service of what truly matters to you? That’s a powerful place to be.
So here’s your invitation:
🌱 Pick one goal for the next 6 months.
🌱 Decide who you need to be in order to live into it.
🌱 Then gently step into that version of you—choice by choice, day by day.
Not because you should.
Not because you have to.
But because you want to become the person who honors her desires and shows up for her own life.
That version of you?
She’s already in there.
Let’s meet her. 💛
