So many women struggle with this one—especially during the holidays.
Where does self-care end and selfishness begin? 🎄✨
Here’s the truth:
Most of what we label as “selfish” this time of year is actually self-preservation.
It’s choosing to take care of yourself first—so you have the energy, patience, and presence to handle everything (and everyone) that comes with the season.
✅ When you prioritize self-care, you’re filling your own cup—so you can pour into others from overflow, not emptiness.
✅ When you “get selfish,” you’re actually honoring your needs and giving yourself permission to recharge. And that’s not indulgent—it’s essential.
Because when you constantly put yourself last—especially during the holidays—resentment builds. You snap. You’re tired, irritable, and running on fumes.
And honestly? That doesn’t serve anyone… including you.
Self-care isn’t indulgent. It’s responsible.
It’s how you show up as your best self—in your relationships, your home, your work, and your celebrations.
So this season, let’s rewrite what “selfish” means.
Taking care of you is the most generous thing you can do for everyone else. 🕯🦋
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